Sunday, October 21, 2018

Many marriages lost, families broken due to ads place online through Craigs list one ex.



Wanted to speak out, to other women who have experienced what I have. Marriage torn apart, kids suffering, finances bottom out. All due to the internet, postings, women pose at something they are not. Making promises of money, bigger house, new trucks etc. While cheating, and bringing another to cheat. Have the nerve to ask? demand, this man go to church???? Making posts of being someone they are not. Questioning the wife if and when she has had intimate acts with her own husband??!!. LOL, Trying to make promises, offers of things related to money to all the kids. This person also called the wife's job. When it didn't fall through. She acted out, and worse. She was asked by the wife to send all emails and no she would not. Some texts sent to wife via email. You can tell pieced together. Found out through some text the husband discussed personal, even health issues of the wife to this woman. 15 years? Just thrown away, no signs, no signals that it was so bad. That he would cheat. Promises of never leaving, etc.
Gone! that fast, due to what I call stalking online. Placing ads, of all sorts, very sickening. No telling who had answered, what came next. Wife is told,, oh there is so so much Ive done. So much not told the truth about. But, even over a year later? Nothing is told of what he had done. Even when asked it is ignored. Asking for divorce is ignored, not discussed. Option to work things out if had got help? get help No answer, but busy working. Woman who he brought into this all. Continues to post online, occasionally References the man occupation and how he was sexually. Woman lied about her husband, his occupation, who his family was, etc. She lied about her age as well. So many lies, and the act of being a abused person by her spouse?? WOW, to try and get another man to run to her rescue. Because most men will. This person tried to take over, tell the wife how to act, how things would be etc.
Do feel there needs to be some sort of program, agency created private to where women or men. Can use the help to catch this type of thing early on. block it some how. esp with the ones who have a problem. I do know in one state a woman has done this already but it needs to be nationwide. Because to many families have been ruined, torn apart, etc. Loss for kids, having a parent ripped from their lives, grand kids the same. Some may agree, some may not. But, here it is a story to see how others think and what they have to say about it.